I Don’t Know What I’m doing?

Being a human being it’s normal to be unsure about what you want to do for the rest of your life or at a certain situation in life which may occur expectedly or unexpectedly. But it’s the time for everyone in that kind of situation as further it may lead to serious issues in Life which may affect your future & also the ones who are attached to you.

Now it’s time to figure out your next move facing all set of upcoming challenges & circumstances in order to give meaning to your life & giving answer to the question which you are facing i.e. I don’t know what I’m doing?

This is the perfect time for you to learn how to deal with it. Ahead, are the three ways to help you to come out from this.

Stop Thinking Everyone Else Has it pinned

• Yeah, sometimes you feel like everyone is better than you at whatever they do. But, believe it they’re not.
• Comparing yourself to others is the thing that you are insulting yourself by comparing. Everyone is unique in their own way having unique specialties & neglecting your specialties doesn’t measure up only others which hold you back & hit your confidence.

Stop Believing You Have to Have Everything Figured Out

• This is what you do when you are feeling depressed . It makes you feel useless and feel that everything is going wrong in life. You start feeling that Happiness is not to be yours nor love, or the success, because you will feel that you are not good at anything
• Remove all the things from your head that you are thinking that before doing any work you must figure out all things which you haven’t done before. You must prepare yourself to face new circumstances & obstacles to make yourself to learn and grow in your life.

Stop Thinking You’ll Be Found Out

• If you don’t stop the obsessive thoughts which are running in your mind then you can end up spending months and even years focusing on someone other than yourself and hating yourself for it. This will cause you more than just wasted time.
• First thing you need to do is stop worrying of what others will discover about you. Whatever others talk about you don’t have anything to do with it. That should not distract your inner voice.
•  Confidence is the ability for you to choose your behavior so be confident in whatever you do & have trust on it & make your next choice based upon new knowledge and awareness.

The biggest challenge for you seems to be that you are lacking in having support or guidance. In addition, you might be feeling lonely & depressed.

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